Blog
Notes on breath meditation, attention, and doing it for real.
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There Was a War Going On in My Head. I Only Found Out After I Started Meditating.
Stress ran my head in three directions — back over what happened, forward into worst cases, sideways into what others thought. I saw the shape only after meditating.
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How to Stop Procrastinating
You don't skip because you have reasons. The reasons show up because you weren't going to go. The order is backwards, and the order is the part you can't see.
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When Your Mind Won't Stop Racing, Emptying It Is the Wrong Move
The harder you try to empty your mind, the louder the racing thoughts get. People who handle this well don’t erase thoughts — they notice them. Here’s what that changes.
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What's Going On in Your Head When You're Trying to Impress
Trying to look impressive and cringing later happens in four steps. What you know only arrives at the last one — so what changes things is when you notice.
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One Thing I Realized Through Mindfulness Meditation That Genuinely Changed My Life: I Stopped Caring How Other People See It, or How Other People Do It
"How does everyone else handle this?" Once thoughts like that fill your head, nothing gets done properly. After I started meditating I could catch them coming.
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I Learned to Meditate From a Book
Every meditation app I downloaded was something to listen to. The part I was stuck on — noticing my mind had wandered — wasn’t in any of them. So I built it.
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You Rested Your Whole Lunch Break. Why Are You More Tired?
You rested all lunch break and came back more tired. Here's what your head was actually doing while you scrolled — and the three quiet minutes that stop it.
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I Quit Meditation Three Times — at the Exact Same Point
A few months in, your mind feels louder than when you started. You’re not doing it wrong — here’s what’s actually happening, from someone who quit three times.